Friday, August 29, 2008

there's only "you" and "me" but not "us"

got this from danya galing ang.it is exactly what is happening now :|

ok.this term,magiging active na ko :D waah gusto ko mag SPO.parang masaya :D
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almost like a relationship, but not quite.bestfriends.fuck :|

It is a phase where the persons involved are more than friends, but not quite lovers.

Puwedeng may verbal agreement, puwedeng wala.

One or both of you may have admitted your feelings, possible din na hindi.

You just let your gestures do the talking for you.

Walang pormal na ligawan na nangyari.but thats what i want! (spoiled brat voice)

Hindi kayo. Pero sa kilos niyo,sa mga sinasabi niyo, parang kayo,

pero hindi.sana nga kami eh :(

This kind of "relationship" can happen at different stages for different reasons.


It can happen after a break-up. why didnt anyone warned me?

You still love each other, and you want to be with each other but you broke up for a reason. And for reasons that you alone know, ayaw niyo na muna magkabalikan.
NOT TRUE.on my part..:(


It can also happen before a relationship, iyong pareho kayong nakikiramdam.

Possible din na ayaw niyo munang mag-seryoso kaya kunwa-kunwarian lang muna. Testing lang. fuck you



Puwede ring hindi puwedeng maging kayo kasi isa sa inyo may ka-relasyon na. Kaya habang hindi pa siya nakikipag-break doon sa boy/girl, wala muna kayong relasyon para nga naman hindi siya nangangaliwa kasi "hindi naman kayo."
hindi pwede mang yari yun. hmf :\


This pseudo-relationship stage, for a time, can be fun.

Lalo na kung naghahanap ka lang naman ng kalaro.

Pero huwag ka lang mag-e-expect na may patutunguhan kayo kasi wala talagang kasiguraduhan.

So bakit ang daming nagse-settle sa ganitong set-up ganoong hindi naman sigurado kung may patutunguhan?


Iba't ibang dahilan.

Puwedeng for fun lang.

Puwedeng "buti na iyan kesa wala"

Meaning, habang wala pa yong the real thing, doon muna sa kunwa-kunwarian.


For those who are not in a serious relationship, they would think that pseudo-relationship is better than no relationship at all.

It would be fun, if all you're after is that "kilig" feeling.

But then I learned that although it was only a pseudo-relationship, the emotions were real.



And usually, in this kind of set up, merong malulugi..

"ung nainlove sa taong taken na.."


Una, you can't ask him/her to commit.

Since it's not really a relationship, you can't demand commitment from your partner.


Ano ba kayo? bestfriends putek


You will always be uncertain about your role in his/her life.

You can't expect him/her to be always there with you. he said he will be...

And if you feel jealous of the other boys/girls, you just have to keep it to yourself.

Ano ka ba niya para magselos?
[HOHMAYGAD.]



Pangalawa, what if you fall deeply in love with him/her?

You can't be sure if he/she feels the same way.

Baka nag-a-assume ka lang na mahal ka rin niya.


Even if you are dying to tell him/her you love him/her, you can't. Because you're not sure if he/she will like it.

Baka mapahiya ka lang.


This stage will always make you wonder where you are in the relationship.

Or if there is a relationship at all. (!!!)


Pangatlo, what if you become attached too much?

What if you have invested all your emotions and this man/woman hasn't?

What if you remain faithful to him/her, not entertaining other guys/gals, only to find out that he/she is seeing other girls/boys? [Tanginang puso yan]


Isa pang downside ng pseudo-relationships, it is fleeting.

When a disagreement sets in, or when one of you gets cold,then that would be the end of it.


Unlike in a serious relationship, hindi mo alam kung saan ka lulugar sa isang pseudo-relationship.

Wala kang pinanghahawakan.

Kasi sa pseudo- relationship, there is no "us."



MERon LANG "you and me" but not "us"

Thursday, August 28, 2008

tapos na ang finals

bukas.

shetshet. kuhanan na ng course card!ugh.scary

ok.walang kwenta tong post na to.

wala ako magawa :|

ANO BA ANG MERON SA MGA PWESTO NA ITO?

JEM SAGOT! :))

ok.wala lang.dito lang kami tumambay kanina. :|gusto ko na mag third term :|

Monday, August 25, 2008

ako ay dalawampu taong gulang na. daw.

ninakaw mula kay regondon. :D

Put an X on all that you do. Add it all up and that's your age!

[x] I know how to cook toast
[] I can do my own laundry
[x] I can cook for myself. (sa oven!haha)
[x ] I actually enjoy intellectual conversations.
Total : 3

[x] I show up for school MOST of the time unless I'm sick. (no choice)
[x] I always carry a pen in my pocket/purse
[x] I've never gotten a detention. (mabait ako)
[x] I've watched talk shows. (tyra show)
[] I drink coffee at least once a week. (hindi ako marunong mag timpla :| )
Total : 4

[x] I know how to run the dish washer
and/or do the dishes.
[x] I can count to 5 in either Spanish/French/German/Italian/etc. (Uno, dos, tres, cuatro, cinco..)
[x ] When I say I'm going to do something I do it.
[ ] I can mow the lawn.
[ ] I remember to water my plants. (kaya laging namamatay pag ako nag plplant :| )
[ ] I study when I HAVE to. (patay ako. )
[x] I pay attention at school.
[x] i remember to feed my pets
Total : 5

[x] I can spell experience without looking it up..
[x] The first thing I do when i get home is eat.
[x] I can go to the store without getting something I don't need. (HAHAHAHAHA)
[ ] I understand jokes the first time they are said.
[] I can type fast (mabagal.ugh)
Total : 3

[ ] I have realized that the weather forecast changes every hour.(It does?)
[x] I realize that no one will take you seriously unless you are over the age
of 25 and have a job. (watever)
[ x] I can read a book and actually finish it.
Total : 2

[] I knew that the alphabet and twinkle twinkle little star have the
same rhythm. *sings it* (OMG oo nga noh! ) :))
[x] You just checked. (DAMMIT!)
[x] I noticed rhythm is spelled wrong.
[x] you actually watch the weather
Total : 3

Overall: 20

Sunday, August 24, 2008

girl and guy thing

got this from Duhnyuh


GIRL FACTS---

When a girl is mean to you after a break-up she wants you back but she is too

Scared she'll get hurt and knows you're gone forever!

When you catch a girl glancing at you,

She wants you to look back and smile

When a girl bumps into your arm, while walking with you

She wants you to hold her hand (haha totoo. )

When she wants a hug

She will just stand there

When u break a girl’s heart

She still feels it when you run into each other 3 years later (sige, matignan nga)

When a girl is quiet,

Millions of things are running through her mind...

When a girl is not arguing,

She is thinking deeply,

When a girl looks at you with eyes full of questions,

She is wondering how long you will be around

When a girl answers, "I'm fine," after a few seconds,

She is not fine at all

When a girl stares at you,

She is wondering why you are playing games

When a girl lays her head on your chest,

She is wishing for you to be hers forever

When a girl says she can't live without you,

She has made up her mind that you are

Her future

When a girl says, "I miss you,"

No one in this world can miss you more

Than that


Guy Facts---

When a guy calls you,

He wants to be with you (teka. tatawa muna ako. HAHAHAHAHAHA. Weh. :| )

When a guy is quiet,

He's listening to you...

When a guy is not arguing,

He realizes he's wrong (very good. hahahahaha)

When a guy says, "I'm fine" after a few minutes

He means it

When a guy stares at you,

He wishes you would care about him and wonders if you do (Uh, riiiiiight)

When you’re laying your head on a guy's chest,

He has the world

When a guy calls/texts/comments/messages you everyday,

He is in love

When a (good) guy tells you he loves you,

He means it

When a guy says he can't live without you,

He’s with you till you’re done

When a guy says, "I miss you,"

He misses you more than you could have ever missed him or anything else


Repost this in 10 minutes and your true

Love will

Call you;

Text you;

Kiss you;

Or just surprise u (:

If you don’t, you will die unhappy...


Was there someone in your mind as you read this?

Don't deny it; you know you never want to lose this person

Post this as:

IF YOU'RE A GUY "When a girl MISSES You"

AND

IF YOU'RE A GIRL POST IT AS

When a GUY misses you..

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

impluensya

bakit kaya ganun.

mahilig mang iwan ang mga tiga LSGH?


Tuesday, August 19, 2008

i need you...

i want you back....
i need you...
i cant concentrate with out you..
i cant focus without you...

why did you leave me?..
why is it so hard to have you?...
cant it be like in highschool?..
when i want you, i can always have you?...

im craving for you...dont i deserve you anymore?...



sleep
___________


Sunday, August 17, 2008

yung first letter thing

from duhnyuh

According to studies, your sexual identity is revealed by the first letter of your first name... what do you think?

(Those of you with names that start with "N" will probably wish it started with "K"! )

-A-
You are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action. You mean business. With you, what you see is what you get. You have no patience for flirting and can't be bothered with someone who is trying to be coy, cute, demure, and subtly enticing. You are an up front person. When it comes to sex, it's action that counts not obscure hints. Your mate's physical attractiveness is important to you. You find the chase and challenge of the "hunt" invigorating. You are passionate and sexual as well as being much more adventurous than you appear; however, you do not go around advertising these qualities. Your physical needs are your primary concern.

-B-
You give off vibes of lazy sensuality. You enjoy being romanced, wined, and dined. You are very happy to receive gifts as a statement of the affection of your lover. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You are private in your statement of endearments and particularly when it comes to lovemaking. You will hold off until everything meets with your approval. You can control your appetite and abstain from sex if need be. You require new sensations and experiences. You are willing to experiment.

-C-
You are a very social individual, and it is important to you to have a relationship. You require closeness and togetherness. You must be able to talk to your sex partner before, during, and after. You want the object of your affection to be socially acceptable and good looking. You see your lover as a friend and companion. You are very sexual and sensual, needing someone to appreciate and almost worship you. When this cannot be achieved, you have the ability to go for long periods without sexual activity. You are an expert at controlling your desires and doing without.

-D-
Once you get it into your head that you want someone, you move full steam ahead in pursuit. You do not give up your quest easily. You are nurturing and caring if someone has a problem, this turns you on. You are highly sexual, passionate, loyal, and intense in your involvement, sometimes possessive and jealous. Sex to you is a pleasure to be enjoyed. You are stimulated by the eccentric and unusual, having a free and open.

-E-
Your greatest need is to talk. If your date is not a good listener, you have trouble relating. A person must be intellectually stimulating or you are not interested sexually. You need a friend for a lover and a companion for a bedmate. You hate disharmony and disruption, but you do enjoy a good argument once in a while it seems to stir things up. You flirt a lot, for the challenge is more important than the sexual act for you, but once you give your heart away, you are uncompromisingly loyal. When you don't have a good lover to fall asleep with, you will fall asleep with a good book. (Sometimes, in fact, you prefer a good book.)

-F-
You are idealistic and romantic, putting your lover on a pedestal. You look for the very best mate you can find. You are a flirt, yet once committed, you are very loyal. You are sensuous, sexual, and privately passionate. Publicly, you can be showy, extravagant, and gallant. You are born romantic. Dramatic love scenes are your favorite fantasy
pastime. You can be a very generous lover.

-G-
You are fastidious, seeking perfection within yourself and your lover. You respond to a lover who is your intellectual equal or superior, and one who can enhance your status. You are sensuous and know how to reach the peak of erotic stimulation, because you work at it meticulously. You can be extremely active sexually that is, when you find the time. Your duties and responsibilities take precedence over everything else. You may have difficulty getting emotionally close to a lover, but no trouble getting close sexually.

-H-
You seek a mate who can enhance your reputation and earning ability. You will be very generous to your lover once you have attained a commitment. Your gifts are actually an investment in your partner. Before the commitment, though, you tend to be frugal in your spending and dating habits and equally cautious in your sexual involvement. You are a sensual and patient lover.

-I-
You have a great need to be loved, appreciated...Even worshipped. You enjoy luxury, sensuality, and pleasures of the flesh. You look for lovers who know what they are doing. You are not interested in an amateur, unless that amateur wants a tutor. You are fussy and exacting about having your desires satisfied. You are willing to experiment and try new modes of sexual statement. You bore easily and thus require sexual adventure and change. You are more sensual than sexual, but you are sometimes downright lustful.

-J-
You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love. Having a partner is of paramount importance to you. You are free in your statement of love and are willing to take chances, try new sexual experiences and partners, provided it's all in good taste. Brains turn you on. You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating; otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining and dining to know that you're being appreciated.


-K-
You are totally f**king marvelous!

-L-
You are very romantic, idealistic, and somehow you believe that to love means to suffer. You wind up serving your mate or attracting people who have unusual troubles. You see yourself as your lover's savior. You are sincere, passionate, lustful, and dreamy. You can't help falling in love. You fantasize and get turned on by movies and magazines. You do not tell others of this secret life, nor of your sexual fantasies.

-M-
You are emotional and intense. When involved in a relationship, you throw your entire being into it. Nothing stops you; there are no holds barred. You are all consuming and crave someone who is equally passionate and intensply ofe. You believe in total sexual freedom. You are willing to try anything and everything. Your sup sexual energy is inexhaustible. You also enjoy mothering your mate.

-N-
You are crap in bed.

-O-
You are very interested in sexual activities yet secretive and shy about your desires. You can re-channel much of your sexual energy into making money and/or seeking power. You can easily have extended periods of celibacy. You are a passionate, compassionate, sexual lover, requiring the same qualities from your Mate. Sex is serious business; thus you demand intensity diversity, and are willing to try anything or anyone. Sometimes your passions turn to possessiveness, which must be kept in check.

-P-
You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn't think of doing anything that might harm your image or reputation. Appearances count, therefore, you require a good-looking partner. You also require an intelligent partner. Oddly enough, you may view your partner as your enemy; a good fight stimulates those sex vibes. You are relatively free of sexual hang-ups. You are willing to experiment and try new ways of doing things. You are very social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and need a good deal of physical gratification.

-Q-
You require constant activity and stimulation. You have tremendous physical energy. It is not easy for a partner to keep up with you, sexually or otherwise. You are an enthusiastic lover and tend to be attracted to people of other ethnic groups. You need romance, hearts and flowers, and lots of conversation to turn you on and keep you
going.

-R-
You are a no-nonsense, action-oriented individual. You need someone who can keep pace with you and who is your intellectual equal the smarter the better. You are turned on more quickly by a great mind than by a great body (ehem..). However, physical attractiveness is very important to you. You have to be proud of your partner. You are privately very sexy, but you do not beg, you are willing to serve as teacher. Sex is important; you can be a very demanding playmate.

-S-
You are secretive, self-contained, and shy. You are very sexy, sensual and passionate, but you do not let on to this. Only in intimate privacy will this past of your nature reveal itself. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role or any game, and take your love life very seriously.
You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along.

-T-
You are very sensitive, private, and sexually passive; you like a partner who takes the lead. Music, soft lights and romantic thoughts turn you on. You fantasize but do not tend to fall in and out of love easily. When in love, you are romantic, idealistic, mushy and extremely intense. You enjoy having your senses and your feelings stimulated, titillated, and teased. You are a great flirt. You can make your relationships fit your dreams, often times all in your own ZZZ head.

-U-
You are enthusiastic and idealistic when in love. When not in love, you are in love with love, always looking for someone to adore. You see romance as a challenge. You are a roamer and need adventure, excitement, and freedom. You deal in potential relationships. You enjoy giving gifts and enjoy seeing your mate looking good. Your sex drive is strong and you desire instant gratification. You are willing to put your partner's pleasures above your own.

-V-
You are individualistic, and you need freedom, space, and excitement. You wait until you know someone well before committing yourself. Knowing someone means psyching him out. You feel a need to get into his head to see what makes him tick. You are attracted to eccentric types. Often there is an age difference between you and your lover. You respond to danger, thrills and suspense. The gay scene turns you on even though you yourself may not be a participant.

-W-
You are very proud, determined, and you refuse to take no for an answer when pursuing love. Your ego is at stake. You are romantic, idealistic and often in love with love itself, not seeing your partner as he or she really is. You feel deeply and throw all of yourself into your relationships. Nothing is too good for your lover. You enjoy playing love games.

-X-
You need constant stimulation because you bore quickly. You can handle more than one relationship at a time with ease. You can't shut off your mind. You talk while you make love. You can have the greatest love affairs, all by yourself, in your own ZZZ head.

-Y-
You are sexual, sensual, and very independent. If you can't have it your way, you will forgo the whole thing. You want to control your relationships, which doesn't always work out too well. You respond to physical stimulation, enjoy necking and spending hours just touching, feeling and exploring. However, if you can spend your time making money, you will give up the pleasures of the flesh for the moment. You need to prove to yourself and your partner what a great lover you are. You want feedback on your performance. You are an open, stimulating, romantic bedmate.

-Z-
For you, it is business before pleasure. If you are in any way bothered by career, business, or money concerns, you find it very hard to relax and get into the mood. You can be romantically idealistic to a fault and are capable of much sensuality.

Monday, August 11, 2008

ito daw ako :D

got this from sarah :)
What Gedelyn Neyra Means
You are deeply philosophical and thoughtful. You tend to analyze every aspect of your life.
You are intuitive, brilliant, and quite introverted. You value your time alone.
Often times, you are grumpy with other people. You don't appreciate them trying to interfere in your affairs.

You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone.
You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together.
At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together.

You are balanced, orderly, and organized. You like your ducks in a row.
You are powerful and competent, especially in the workplace.
People can see you as stubborn and headstrong. You definitely have a dominant personality.



You are relaxed, chill, and very likely to go with the flow.
You are light hearted and accepting. You don't get worked up easily.
Well adjusted and incredibly happy, many people wonder what your secret to life is.

You are a free spirit, and you resent anyone who tries to fence you in.
You are unpredictable, adventurous, and always a little surprising.
You may miss out by not settling down, but you're too busy having fun to care.

You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people.
You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts.
You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals.







You are wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. You're always up to something.
You have a ton of energy, and most people can't handle you. You're very intense.
You definitely are a handful, and you're likely to get in trouble. But your kind of trouble is a lot of fun.

You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection.
You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive.
You have the classic "Type A" personality.

Friday, August 08, 2008

an act of kindness..anyone?

THERE IS SOMETHING WE CAN DO FOR TARA SANTELICES. PLEASE FORWARD TO EVERYONE YOU KNOW.

Word spreads around fast and almost everyone has already heard about what happened to our dear friend, Tara Santelices (Assumption Antipolo’s Batch 2003 and Ateneo de Manila University’s Class of 2007, AB Political Science).

On the eve of her 23rd birthday, Tara was shot in the head during a hold-up while riding a jeepney along Imelda Avenue, Cainta, Rizal. Joee Mejias, who was with her at that time, rushed her to Amang Rodriguez Memorial Hospital in Marikina City. The parents of Tara and Joee arrived at the hospital shortly thereafter. When morning came, Tara’s parents finally decided to transfer her to the Medical City, Ortigas Avenue, Pasig City. Since 8:00am of August 6, Tara has been in the ICU fighting for her dear life. Her parents have decided not to push through with the operation.

Although it might seem that there is nothing else that we can do but wait for Tara to wake up from this horrific nightmare, we, the friends of Tara, have decided to raise funds for Tara’s hospital bills. This is the least we can do to ease the unbearable pain her family is going through. We have been given the go-signal from Tara’s dad, Tito Larry, and here are the details:

The temporary bank account is under Anne Marie F. Santelices, Banco de Oro, SA 2140-062201. For direct cash donations, please proceed to the ICU Waiting Room of the Medical City (Ortigas Avenue, Pasig City). Please look for Joee Mejias or Lila Santelices.

Any amount will be gratefully accepted. Anonymous donations are also welcome. Please spread the word. Forward this to your family, friends and even to everyone else you know. Please post this on Friendster, Multiply, Facebook and wherever else you can think of. Please send group messages on Yahoo Messenger. This will mean so much to us, her friends.

Please continue praying for Tara, for Joee and for both of their families. If you want to come see Tara, visiting hours at the ICU are at 9:00 am to 11:00 am and 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm.

Thank you so much for your time and kind consideration.

For inquiries, please contact Joee Mejias (09228154987) for calls and Jac Ledonio (09167243071) or Myka Francisco (09163695148) for text messages.

Friday, August 01, 2008

so true in many ways

got this from jodie


"it hurts to love someone when you cant tell what you really feel...

'coz sometimes, we get hurt without them knowing,
we get jealous without the right to feel that way,
we want their time without being in the position to demand for it...

...'til our heart is breaking in silence..

..but despite all these, we continue to love.

'coz somehow, in this hurtful love, there's still hope of having simple moments with them...

even if it means being JUST a FRIEND.